Grab a coffee and take a walk somewhere nice with people around, like a farmers market.
How to bring it:
“I have some errands to run Saturday around 4, but I’d love to take you out on a date. Since you don’t drink, I thought it would be fun to grab some coffee at *insert cool coffee place* and take a walk through the farmers market. There’s this stall that has some amazing apple cider donuts you’d love. Are you free around 2pm?”
Whether you’re young, not much of a drinker, or sober, a coffee date is one of the best first date options you can offer. It’s a really low investment date not only time-wise but financially as well. A stroll somewhere, like a park loop or farmers markets, should give you enough time to find a connection. Don’t forget to stop on occasion to take in a sight or try something interesting from a local vendor.
Why this is awesome:
You’re clear with a location, time and activity, which she’ll appreciate because many guys make the mistake of being vague. Bonus points for showing her why the date is a good idea, like mentioning fantastic apple cider donuts.
The most important thing on a date for a woman isn’t where you take her or how much you spend, but being comfortable. By setting a time frame (“Date starts at 2pm, I have errands around 4pm.”) You’re signaling to her you don’t want to just hook up and she knows she’s not gonna be stuck with you in a dark bar at 11pm if you end up being a creep.
Have fun! Xx