Wouldn’t it be cool if there was an easy guide to impress a woman?
We perfectly know that the way to a woman’s heart is not that easy as just landing a fresh and colorful bunch of flowers…
However, we sometimes underestimate the fact that some of the smallest gestures can make a real difference! And we know that when meeting someone – especially for the first time – you’ll want to start with the right foot.
Whether you’re on your first date or just trying to win her back, here is a list of guidelines you definitely want to consider and that will help you make a difference:
- Avoid showing up late:
There’s nothing worse than being late on a date. Please, remember to give yourself plenty of time to get to where you planned to be and if you realise you are not gonna make it, make sure to inform your date on time.
- Be Polite:
Don’t leave your manners at home. Be polite not only with your date but also with those around you. Good manners will always make a great first impression: hold her door, listen carefully, have good table manner, let her sit first, and so on
- Make eye contact:
Some studies found that “eye contact creates a powerful and subconscious sense of connection…”. Also “eye contact can increase feelings of mutual likability and trustworthiness”. So, make sure to focus on her eyes, first…
- Dress to Impress:
Believe it is true… your outfit will make a difference, even if a slight one. Now, I am not saying that you need to dress up in an incredible fashion manner but just follow some main rules like pick a color that looks best on you, avoid anything too bright or dark, make sure your clothes fit properly and so on.
- Make her laugh:
An excellent seduction weapon – if used well – it’s the ability to make her having fun. Of course, confidence has to be created first as you hardly know each other, but being funny will bring confidence and confidence will bring more ways to have fun together.
- Bring her flowers:
Who said that giving flowers to a woman is an old cliche? A beautiful bouquet of fresh flowers is definitely going to impress her. Buying her flowers is not only a way to make her smile but can also be a way to deliver a message. In fact certain blooms have particular meanings and this will allow you to say much more!
- Offer a sincere compliment:
A genuine compliment is always very appreciated. Complimenting her character, her beauty or something that you noticed and absolutely admire of her will impress her. Take a look at some of the best compliments you can give a woman to spark some ideas!
- Show her what you like:
Some girls are impressed by guys who show enthusiasm for their interests and find time for themselves. For example, if you are an avid reader, say it! You will have more topics of discussion when you see her and maybe, she has the same passion…
- Get to know her:
Many of us just get so excited to date a girl and forget to seriously get to know her! Be sure to ask her questions that highlight her personality and her interests. Once you know a little more about what she likes and what she doesn’t, you will also have a chance to delve into this kind of subject a little better.
- Be transparent and direct.
Finally, if you had fun and enjoyed your date don’t hesitate and ask her if she’d like to spend more time together. If you’d rather call her after your date, that’s fine, but don’t invite her via Facebook or any other social media – otherwise she might think you’re too nervous to talk to her.
That’s all we have for today…
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